How Do I Safely Enter The BDSM Scene When I Move To A New Town?
Dear Thalia,
I recently moved to the Bay area from a small town on the east coast to teach dance.
I'm 32 and have dated older butch women exclusively since college, when I came out and I'm a total femme. I'm starting to experiment with the BDSM scene, leather etc.
What advice would you have for me to stay safe as I explore the BDSM scene in my new town?
Sincerely,
All Tied Up
How Do I Find The Right Toy Store To Visit?
Dear Thalia,
My girlfriend and I have been talking about spicing up our lovemaking routine with a toy. Neither one of us has any experience with any toys so we're totally overwhelmed. Where do we start?
Sincerely,
Treasure Chest
Why Do I Have To Pee After Sex?
Dear Thalia,
Every time I have sex I have to jump up and run to the bathroom and pee immediately afterward. This drives my girlfriend nuts because she wants to cuddle in the afterglow of lovemaking. But I just can't stay. I have to go and listen to her protests the whole time. I totally get what she's saying. It destroys the mood when I jump up and run away. What causes the urge and is there anything I can do stop it?
Sincerely,
Flushing