Wellness, Menopause Therapy Café Wellness, Menopause Therapy Café

How Do I Keep Myself And My Partner Intimate And Connected After Menopause?

Dear Thalia,

I'm a femme lesbian in a committed relationship with a butch. I love my partner and crave her touch and to be near her. I have gone through (early) menopause due to a complete hysterectomy. My desire and sex drive is low at best and sex is often painful (penetration of any kind, despite copious amounts of lube) -- ideas on how to keep us both intimate, connected and sexual?

Sincerely,

GrrlNextDoor

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Wellness, Disability Therapy Café Wellness, Disability Therapy Café

How Do I Bring Love Back Into My Life Now That I'm In A Wheelchair?

Dear Thalia,

I was in an accident a year and a half ago that left me paralyzed from the hips down. How does one enter back into the dating world when I am still learning how my body is now?

Are there other women that will date someone in a wheelchair and see them for the person that they are and not the chair that they have to be in?

Sincerely,

Love and Life

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